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Second Efforts
By Joe Gutierrez
Spring/Summer 2005
| Doctors removed a kidney and left a bullet lodged
three inches from his heart and told him his athletic career was over.
In a reverse Knute Rockne kind of way, it may have been the best pep
talk he’d ever heard. |
Playing in Super Bowl XXIX in 1995 for the San Diego Chargers pales in
comparison to the paper Mark Seay received last December.
Clearly, it better be a darn good piece of paper
to surpass the gritty glory of battling in a Super Bowl. But there he
was, standing on the podium in early December, standing among 750 other
CSUSB graduates, shaking hands with Jack Brown, a former football coach
himself, who handed the 37-year-old Seay a CSUSB bachelor’s degree
in criminal justice.
“This goes to show,” said Seay, “that
no matter what you do or what type of adversity you face, education is
important to fight for. It took me six years, but I made it!” Seay,
who now works in community relations for Stater Bros. Markets, has experienced
more as a youth and later in early adulthood than most people have seen
in their lifetime.
Signed by the Texas Rangers baseball team upon graduation
from San Bernardino High School, Seay was recruited to play football for
Cal State Long Beach for the late Hall of Fame Coach George Allen. But
his athletic career was almost cut short in 1988 when he was the victim
of a drive-by shooting. Doctors removed a kidney and left a bullet lodged
three inches from his heart and told him his athletic career was over.
In a reverse Knute Rockne kind of way, it may have
been the best pep talk he’d ever heard. Seay came back to play for
Long Beach State, where he led the conference in receptions. He then signed
as a free agent with the San Francisco 49ers and a year later signed with
the San Diego Chargers. He had one of the best years of his career in
1994. The following January, he made the game-winning touchdown catch
that led to the Charger’s only appearance in the Super Bowl, the
dream of every football player, and he entered the record books by catching
the first two-point conversion pass in Super Bowl history.
But a bachelor’s degree was a lifelong dream.
“This is far and beyond better. The Super Bowl was just for a moment.
Getting my degree is something I will have for the rest of my life,”
said the San Bernardino native. “The Super Bowl was for me and my
teammates. My degree is for my family, my son who’s in the second
grade. I’m setting an example for him to aspire to receive his university
degree too.”
Besides family, one man has been instrumental in
urging Seay to get his degree – Stater Bros. Markets chairman and
CEO, Jack H. Brown. The two men met when Seay was a 15-year-old sophomore
at San Bernardino High School and Brown, a San Bernardino High School
alumnus, was a volunteer coach.
“Even though Mark played in the Super Bowl,”
Brown said, “he knew that in the Super Bowl of ‘life’
he would need this university degree to be able to compete. So, he went
after it just like he did for many game-winning passes in the NFL.”
Brown would always visit with students, delivering
motivational talks. “He would urge us on to do our best,”
Seay said. “A lot of the things he said made sense. He would do
whatever he could to help us.” The two men kept in contact and became
good friends, and Mark worked at Stater Bros. during summers and vacation
periods while attending Long Beach State. After his retirement from the
NFL, Seay went to work for Stater Bros. And at the urging of those around
him, Seay enrolled at Cal State San Bernardino in 2002, picking up where
he left off at Long Beach State as a criminal justice major.
“I promised my mom, I promised my dad and
I promised Jack,” Seay said. “He urged me to go back and get
my degree.” And now with a degree in hand, Seay said he plans to
continue serving as a motivational speaker to high school students in
the inland region and prepare for a criminal justice career as a gang
counselor. Take away the fact that he has survived a shooting, had an
NFL career and played in a Super Bowl, Seay can sound like any other college
graduate. “I feel a lot better now that it’s all over.”
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